Monday

I Capture the Castle






Took a last minute drive out to Arcadia University in PA...Middle Daughter is planning on attending there in the fall.  Such a gorgeous campus... (for more info on Grey Towers and Arcadia, check out their site: http://www.arcadia.edu/Campus-Tour-Grey-Towers-Castle.htm )

SO hard to wrap my head around having 2 children in college and my "baby" in high school.  Seems impossible that time has flown by this quickly.  Impossible and kind of cruel...like ripping the rug out from under our feet with no warning and no way to brace ourselves for the empty space left behind.

Happy Mother's Day

Awoke yesterday to a beautiful Mother's Day, made more so by the fact I didn't have to go to work and therefore stayed in bed for a RIDICULOUSLY long amount of time.  Napping tired me out so I had to nap some more.  Awesome daughters brought me my favorite breakfast (egg, cheese and vegetarian sausage wrapped in an herb tortilla with homemade salsa on the side from North Beach Grille on Atlantic Avenue) and Snapple iced tea to drink. They also graced me with an eye makeup set in "Naked" I had expressed interest in and an Almond Joy bar.  Bliss.  Youngest daughter made a card with a picture of Mrs. Jumbo holding Dumbo.  She and I had watched "Dumbo" the night before.  "Baby Mine" always makes me a bit weepy.  OK, a lot weepy.  Later in the afternoon we went out to score the Starbucks "Happy Hour" half priced Frappucinos.  Even through the normal ups and downs life brings, being a mother has proven to be my favorite thing on earth.  It has taught me what unconditional love truly is.  My heart knows no bounds where those girls are concerned.  My wish for them is they grow to be happy, healthy, strong and kind, know who they are and how to be themselves no matter what they are faced with. 

Sunday

NYC FiDi Weekend

Our weekend in the City was fantastic, though I'm still amazed at how much there was to do in the Financial District.  Stupid me for always eschewing it due to it being "boring".  There's SO much to see and do... in the four days we were there we ventured uptown only twice, once for dinner and once to see a show. 

I'm not a "Jesus is in my Eggo" type girl, but I did think this photo of the ESB, taken by The Mister, is quite lovely...it looks as though there's an angelic woman watching over it from the left side. 
We walked the Brooklyn Bridge for the first time.  Highly recommend doing so...seeing the sheer magnitude of workmanship can bring a tear to your eye.

Back to the Manhattan side, we walked the Battery...the Irish Hunger Memorial is pretty incredible.  Such a sadly beautiful remembrance.
 The Mister found a quote on the outside of the structure which is SO telling of the desperation people felt: "I must take my little all, and leave my father's bones, and seek a home in America".  Heart wrenching.   There are  miles of quotes and facts surrounding the Memorial and, when you walk through the entrance, audio of people speaking about it.  It's an amazing amount of history and sadness fit into a little plot.


The American Merchant Mariner's Memorial...a bit hard to make out in this photo is the sailor in the water holding on for his very life...powerful.
The house was a fun piece at the Brooklyn Museum.  You could (after signing a waiver) climb to the top of this roof.  I kept my feet on the ground for that one but was super excited to see the Haring exhibit.  Also shocked and bemused at all the parents who brought their little ones to see it...did they think it was a cartoon exhibit??  I LOVE Haring's work and have since I was a teenager-but, errrrr, this exhibit in particular was not intended for the playground set.
As of last week it's One World Trade Center is now the tallest building in NYC.  A melancholic title to earn.
Behind me is the "The Sphere", created by artist Fritz Koenig.  It stood between the WTC towers and survived with the damage you see here.  It was originally meant to symbolize world peace through world trade.  Ugh, the irony.


Recommend visiting the National Museum of the American Indian, or at least checking out the amazing  Alexander Hamilton Custom House which holds it.  The sculptures, architecture, fixtures...incredibly beautiful.  The museum is an arm of the Smithsonian, so it's free of charge to enter.
We had the pleasure of having a subway car to ourselves after dinner Sunday night.  Subway's still the bargain of the century for transportation around the city.

Speaking of bargains, it was my goal to make this trip as inexpensive as possible, and nearly everyone asks how much the room (for 3 nights) cost.  So, here's a breakdown:

Room:  Booked "blindly" on Travelocity which means you are told the neighborhood and given general info about the hotel but NOT given the name until you actually book it.  This is the best way I've found to nail a bargain.  SO, we stayed at the Club Quarters Wall Street for $88. per night.  We booked Friday, Saturday and Sunday...it's a better deal to stay in the FiDi when the Market is closed so weekends are priced lowest.  It was immaculate, close to the 2 and 3 trains (though we walk A LOT the subway is necessary and the more convenient the better) and has a kiosk check-in and check-out system which was supremely convenient.  The only negatives I read are that the staff isn't terribly friendly (who cares?  As long as you get what you need, you don't need to cultivate a friendship with them.) and the rooms can be small.  Which is a complaint usually posted by people who haven't been to NY before and/or aren't aware of the premium on space.  Give me a clean bed, a basic bathroom and I'm happy.  The room we had at CQWS was seriously twice the size of the one we stayed in at the POD a few months ago, and we found that one to be perfectly fine.  There is a substantial tax slapped on the bill, but even so, for accommodations three nights in Manhattan we paid just over three hundred dollars total.

We did "splurge" and take the ferry in, which is twenty five dollars per person one way as opposed to the NJT trains which are 15 per person, one way.  But the views were spectacular.  It's funny, we live so close to the City and a lot of people commute there for work but it's so easy to overlook just how beautiful it can be and how awe inspiring it is.  I'm grateful the Mister and I both appreciate it and LOVE spending time there.

Eating out: Used American Express voucher for dinner at Smith & Wollensky,  tab came to around one hundred dollars.   http://www.smithandwollensky.com/home.  Also ate at Ulysses http://ulyssesfolkhouse.com/ on Stone Street (the first paved street in Manhattan, now lined with pubs and quite the place to be.  Tables are set outside for good-weather dining and the food was perfectly acceptable.) That bill was under thirty dollars.  Mark may have scored the ultimate bargain at Steak and Shake http://www.steaknshake.com/ ...hot dog, drink and fries for like six bucks in the Theater District.
For breakfast Mark would walk over to Leo's Bagels http://www.leosbagels.com/#/bagels right around the corner from the hotel.  Also picked up some cookies at a Farmer's Market...a great way to support real food and the people who bring it as well as get some great food at reasonable cost...here's a list of NYC Markets: http://www.grownyc.org/ourmarkets

Didn't do much shopping so that wasn't a money pit.  Did see "Other Desert Cities" on Broadway.  For Broadway tickets just hit one of the TKTS booths http://www.tdf.org/TDF_ServicePage.aspx?id=80&%20do=v(there's one in Times Square) for steep discounts on shows. Our tickets were in about the sixth row and cost $65. each.  Stockard Channing and Judith Light both earned Tony nominations for their performances in it. 

One of the biggest chunks of change we dropped was at the Almondine Bakery in Brooklyn.  For a dozen macaroons and a chocolate pastry the bill was over thirty dollars.  Worth it for the taste, at least in dollars if not calorie wise.
The sight seeing is where it's at.  For no cost at all (except for comfortable shoes), you can walk Battery Park and check out all it has to offer,  http://www.nycgovparks.org/parks/batterypark ,  walk over to City Hall Park http://www.nycgovparks.org/parks/cityhallpark of course walk the Brooklyn Bridgehttp://brooklyn.about.com/od/brooklynbridge/a/How-To-Walk-The-Brooklyn-Bridge-Manhattan-To-Brooklyn-Brooklyn-To-Manhattan.htm , check out the  Irish Hunger Memorial http://www.nyc.com/arts__attractions/irish_hunger_memorial.1379/editorial_review.aspx go to South Street Seaport (touristy to the max but still worthwhile) http://www.southstreetseaport.com/dining-shopping .

Here is where we leave you.  Already scoping out bargains for our next weekend away...I have my eye on the Rockefeller Center Club Quarters but beating 88 bucks a night is going to be a challenge. Our girls want to join us on the next trip so I'll be hunting down things to do with a 20, 17 and 14 year old.









Wednesday

Financial District NYC




The Mister and I are hitting the city for the weekend...staying in the Financial District.  Scouting out things to do and see.  

Friday

My Favorite Films of 2011


There were so many well done films this past year, I had a hard time narrowing them to this list, but  here, in no particular order, are my faves.
  1.  1.The Descendants
Any film which elicits laughter as easily as it does tears is a treasure.  This is certainly the case with The Descendants.  Clooney masterfully creates one of the most beautifully heart wrenching scenes I’ve ever witnessed in a movie.   Familial  dissent, the beauty of Hawaii, marital heartbreak, growing old, coming of age…it covers a  wide swath of life.  A strong, gorgeously filmed work of art. 

  1. The Artist
Impossible to discuss without giving too much away,  The Artist is simply pure love of film. 

3.  Drive
Possibly one of the best ensemble casts ever brought together.  Albert Brooks as you’ve never seen him before, Ron Perlman as a true beast, Bryan Cranston, Carey Mulligan, Christina Hendricks, Oscar Isaac and  golden boy Ryan Gosling make for one hell of a ride.  As the main character- one with no given name- Gosling plays a mysterious, almost unflappably calm stunt driver by day, getaway driver by night.  He is a study in cool broodiness.  He’s also definitely the guy you want on your side.   SPOILER ALERT: The one thing I was not prepared for was the intensity of the violence in this film.  It is brutal.  And not indicated at all on any of the trailers/ads I’d seen. 

  1. The Guard
Brendan Gleeson, playing an quirky Garda in Western Ireland,  elicits steady  laughter with his crude, certainly off color banter.  This movie is a joyful word play, with enough seriousness and depraved criminality mixed in to keep it from becoming silly.  Don Cheadle is the perfect straight man to Gleeson’s cop who lacks any self editing whatsoever.  Fionula Flannagan is sheer, sharp loveliness as Gleeson’s Mum. 

  1. Win Win
Truth be told, I feared  before seeing it  that this one would dip into cheap sentimentality, “After School Special” style.  Thankfully it didn’t.  Paul Giamatti and Bobby Cannavale  play best friends perfectly and hilariously.  Jeffrey Tambor adds  sad sack humor.  Amy Smart plays Giamatti’s no-nonsense though big hearted wife.  It is a pleasure to see Bert Young on screen again. The real surprise, cast wise, is teen Alex Shaffer who embodies his role pitch perfectly. 

  1. The Ides of March
Gosling again.  And Clooney again.  Hey, Giamatti’s here too.  If there are 3 actors who are eminently watchable, it’s this lot.  Add Phillip Seymour Hoffman and it’s acting perfection.  Evan Rachel Wood is luminous in her role as young campaign staffer who becomes enmeshed in events far more sinister than any good campaign can withstand.  

  1. Bridesmaids
“Girl Power” film extraordinaire.  Not for the faint of heart or the easily offended, but a sincere testament to the power of friendship. 

  1. Crazy, Stupid Love
Funny,  Touching Film. 

  1. Hugo
Based upon David Selznick’s fantastic book “The Invention of Hugo Cabret”,  “Hugo” is a beautiful love letter to the art and magic of film.  It’s a bit slow out of the gate but makes up in beauty and heartfelt adoration what it lacks in pacing.  Sir Ben Kingsley is nothing less than wizardly in his role of toy kiosk owner with a history. 

  1. The Muppets
Need I say more?  No, I thought not.  True to its roots and well worth watching.  Plus, we all KNEW Animal would wind up in an Anger Management Program one day.  Right?

  1. Money Ball
Truth be told it wasn’t initially on my “must see” list.  Then I saw it.  And am glad I did.  It is the super engaging tale of Billy Beane, GM of the Oakland A’s, and his innovative plan to build a winning team with a shoestring budget.  Brad Pitt was nothing less than ideal for the role of Beane and Jonah Hill played Yale educated number nut Peter Brand perfectly.  Phillip Seymour Hoffman plays put-upon manager Art Howe, who has no faith at all in Beane’s dream.  Beane, using Brand’s statistical info, begins  to take players at the bottom of the Pro pay scale (due to various physical ailments and deformities)  and  puts together a Franken-team with the hope they can turn their losing streak around.

  1. The Fantastic Flying Books of Mr. Morris Lessmore
An absolutely delicious confection of a short film, I was moved to tears by this piece. Twice.  It is as much an homage to film as it is to books,  which are depicted as living beings- flying, migrating, roosting at night upon library shelves…heavenly creatures. Mr. Lessmore,  a sweet Buster Keatonish character, wins the audience over effortlessly with his sad eyed charm and reverence for the Story Book Land he is deposited in after a (Katrina like?) storm whips him away from New Orleans.  With all due respect to Frank L. Baum,  I won’t make the obvious comparisons between this film and other storm-centric fantastical stories.  It  is more than capable of standing on its own.  Hugo, The Artist and The Fantastic Flying Books of Mr. Morris Lessmore comprise a  perfect trifecta of cinephilia.  The Fantastic Flying Books may be downloaded free.

Tuesday

Rumspringa Antics

So I know I shouldn't find this funny.  But I do.  How do buggies successfully flee the scene of a crime?  Whoo hoo, Rumpringa!!!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/12/amish-youth-charged-with-_n_1339865.html








Currently I'm reading "The Devil All the Time" by Donald Ray Pollock.  It's unflinchingly brutal but God can Pollock write.  From what I've read about him, he worked in a paper mill from 1973 till 2005 then his writing took off.  Here's to second career novelists and here's hoping the same streak of talent mingled with luck will one day find me.